己所不欲,勿施于人

Jǐ suǒ bù yù, wù shī yú rén
Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire
🎓 儒家智慧成语

📜 原文 Original Text

「其恕乎!己所不欲,勿施于人。」 ——《论语·颜渊》
— Analects, Yan Yuan

📖 释义 Annotation

「己所不欲,勿施于人」被称为儒家的「黄金法则」。子贡问孔子:有没有一个字可以终身奉行?孔子回答:大概是「恕」吧——自己不愿意承受的,不要施加给别人。这是「恕道」的核心,也是儒家伦理最朴素、最普世的原则。

'Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire' is known as Confucianism's Golden Rule. When Zigong asked for one word to practice for life, Confucius answered: 'Perhaps reciprocity — what you do not wish for yourself, do not impose on others.'

💡 当代启示 Modern Application

在网络时代,这条古老的准则比以往任何时候都更重要。发评论之前想想:如果这条评论是针对你的,你能接受吗?将心比心,是最基本的社交智慧。

In the internet age, this ancient principle is more important than ever. Before posting, ask: if this were directed at you, could you accept it? Empathy is the most fundamental social wisdom.

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